Choice is the greatest weapon that we all possess- however with choice comes a responsibility that few wish to acknowledge. If we have control over our lives and our choices then we are responsible for so much more than we choose to believe is in our control.
Healing is an individual choice. People who choose the road of self-growth and discovery wish to create something different in their lives and in the lives of those around them. Often this means stepping into unknown territory which can sometimes feel like an abyss. Healing fundamentally extracts the most intricate parts of ourselves- the versions that we make sure to keep hidden and allows us to come face to face with it- as if by looking in a mirror at the worst version of who we are and where that exists. Only the Brave can venture this path and it requires truth of who we are and trauma that we have experienced. The form of us that’s left after life has exposed us to its boundless collisions. In this lies your greatest strength- to access these pieces and rebuild a greater version of who you are- worthy and magnificent. In this lies the power we are all searching for- true reflection of the person we are molding and the life that they are able to create.
We tend to recreate the “wars” in their lives. We transcend back into old patterns because they create a false sense of safety. Just like war veterans who would rather sleep on a hard floor than a soft bed because it is all they know and feels familiar. We tend to gravitate to people, beliefs and situations that feel familiar, even if it means that the environment is a negative one. It is our ingrained need for survival that keeps us stuck in the comfort of the familiar rather than to venture out to the possibility of change. Research shows that without change and adaptability a species will perish over time. To put it boldly- without constant change we will die. Death can mean many things- emotional death where people live a life without joy or happiness- wrapped up in the comfort of sorrow and despair. A life of emptiness, of constant struggle with a small reward.
Those who wish to heal, tend to find enjoyment in their lives and create ripples of joy around them. These people are the courageous ones- the gladiators in the ring fighting untold battles and yet coming out victorious.
To those who choose the journey of healing, of change and who have endured so much- You Are Courageous! See your magnificence and have gratitude for your life and your choices.
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With love,
Jasmine.
